When most people think about the Law Of Attraction, the thought of manifesting our wants into reality sounds so easy, doesn’t it?
If we want a big home by the lake, then why not have it now?
If we want to achieve massive financial, personal, emotional, or physical success, what stops us from having it now?
From what I’ve learned and practiced through the years in relation to the Law of Attraction, these are the 3 highlights that I have come to believe we must do to get what we want…
1. What we think about most is what we bring about into our lives. And it doesn’t matter if it’s negative or positive, the Universe (or whatever term you use to describe a higher power or self) gives you exactly what fills your thoughts most. Knowing this, it’s important that you become more aware of your thoughts and where you commit your focus and attention.
2. It’s no use trying to swim up the stream of life. We need to learn to stop getting in our own way, swim WITH the current, and LET life happen. LET abundance flow freely and effortlessly into your life. You can gauge this by the way you feel. Pay close attention to your emotions for they are your guidance system that let’s you know if you’re moving in the right direction or not. Said differently, if it feels good, then you’re in the right place. If it feels bad, then you need to turn around and swim the other way. This part can be tricky because personally, there are a lot of things I used to do that felt good, but didn’t serve my higher purpose (i.e. watching t.v., taking naps during my workdays, and not working out). Try to avoid these false urges of “instant-gratification” especially if they’re not in line with what you truly want!
3. Opportunities are everywhere! They lead to what we want and are delivered to us in many ways. So if the impulse is there, we must act upon it. It’s the Universe’s way of getting us closer to that which we want.
So…if this is all we have to do to get what we want, then why are most people still failing at getting what they want?
The thing is, what we want WILL manifest. It’s just the matter of TIME that we must consider. And it also depends on how congruent our present self is with what we want.
For example, if you wanted to be a Millionaire (which you CAN, if you choose), and you’re not learning new skills, doing results-producing activities, and thinking in ways that would lead to you making Millions, then it will take much longer for you to become a Millionaire, until you align yourself with skills, thoughts, and actions required to be a Millionaire. Your actions must be congruent with what you want.
Allow me to explain…
After much contemplation and practice, I’ve come to realize that the determining factor of why some people get what they want much faster, and many have to WAIT…sometimes a lifetime, is CONFIDENCE.
Having high self-confidence is the key to aligning us with what we want. Our self-confidence, or lack of it determines the speed of manifesting what we want.
How many times have opportunities presented themselves to you, and you knew it was in line with what you wanted, but was outside of your comfort zone and you declined?
Examples of this in our Industry would be calling prospects, networking on a daily basis, committing to your leadership, doing your presentations, speaking in public, or even as simple as trying a new strategy…and FEAR got in the way and you didn’t do it.
Looking back, how many times has this happened?
How much money in the past 5 years do you think you have lost because you didn’t spot these as opportunities to bring you closer to what you want?
Do you believe that if you had the necessary skills, if you knew how to think and change your attitudes and thought process, that you would have done and accomplished way more than you have?
Do you believe that if you had made the effort to learn the right skills to stretch your comfort zone, that you would NOT have passed on previously missed opportunities because you would be more confident that you could do the tasks with ease?
This is what I mean when I say that your level of confidence is directly linked to the Law of Attraction. It’s also why most people pass on opportunities, partly because of fear, but more because of a lack of self-confidence.
The more skills you learn and goals you achieve, the more confidence you will have, therefore you won’ think twice the next time a seemingly tough opportunity presents itself.
To break it down in steps, this is what has to occur in order to speed up the manifestation of what you want…
1. Declare what you want in life.
2. The Universe sets things in place to give you what you want, but in terms that are congruent with your present self.
3. You make an EFFORT to learn the skills necessary to boost your confidence level and expand your comfort zone.
4. With a higher self confidence, you face oncoming challenges head on, and investigate every opportunity without fear, doubt, or regret.
5. The more you achieve, the more confidence you build. The more you confidence you build, the more you achieve. Eventually you end up in a positive loop that spins itself faster and faster until you find yourself HAVING what you want and being in a place where you’ve wanted to be all along.
Now that you have the blueprint to manifesting what you want much faster, are you willing to put in the work?
Said differently, how much more are you willing to lose in the next 5 years if you DON’T change today?
How much longer are you willing to WAIT for your hopes and dreams to come to reality if you DON’T do something about it today?
Having what we want is definitely NOT some far fetched idea or dream reserved for specially chosen people. We don’t have to be born into it. We don’t have to start off affluent.
We are ALL born into it, and are ALL capable of having, doing, and being anything we want. Of course some of us start our journeys with more challenges and obstacles that we can’t do anything about, but having challenges like a lack of resources doesn’t mean we’re out of the race.
It simply means that with a lack of resources, we must become more resource-full.
Any skill can be learned, and we all have the power to control what we think about. It’s all a matter of how badly you want something. The Universe is willing and ready to give you everything you can dream up, but if you want it sooner rather than later, it’s necessary to do some of the work yourself by learning skills that expand your comfort zone, that brings you in better alignment with what you want, and allows you to confidently handle opportunities as they present themselves.
This is the true secret to success and getting what you want!
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Thank you Sue! Your comment is much appreciated.
Angelito I really love the way you have presented this topic and you have a great voice.
I particularly resonated with “It simply means that with a lack of resources, we must become more resource-full.” I know many people who have started from nothing and become very wealthy. I was blessed to know and work with Robert Kiyosaki before he became rich and famous. He had confidence and belief he would succeed. He also would never have given up until he did succeed.
Great message Angelito.
Sue